Marriage has been considered the most important stage in the life of a Luo and has been a springboard to many other stages and privileges for a member of the community. Not Without My Water Pot is an attempt at providing a deeper understanding of why marriage is accorded such reverence amongst the Luo.
This ground-breaking book explores the intricacies of the Luo cultural marriage practices and shows how every detail was carefully planned and executed amidst community-wide celebrations.
Discover the traditions and beliefs that guide the Luo on love and relationships, including how the selection of a bride could make or break an entire lineage.
Learn how Mikayi – the first wife and matriarch in the home – was an institution unto herself, standing as the point of reference on matters in the home.
This book is a must-read for anyone interested in the diversity and richness of Luo culture. It serves as a crucial reminder of the importance of preserving cultural heritage and will be a key reference for our future generations.